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Things you should know before Dating a married man

These are just some considerations you must read before taking the risk of accepting an adventure

There are aspects that you should consider about getting involved with a man who already has a relationship with another woman, before doing anything you should think very well and analyze everything that this represents.

What you should know about dating a married man:

1. HE HAD AN ENGAGEMENT WITH HIS WIFE

It may seem seductive to get involved with a married man, it is a fact that the forbidden generates more desire, but it can be a trap for you, he already has a plan of life and that you can not change.

It is possible that you end up falling madly in love with that man but you are not reciprocated, you will only enjoy moments without commitment, a fun that can hurt you.

already engaged

2. IT IS COMPLICATED THAT YOU SHARE WITH YOUR FRIENDSHIPS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP

You can only talk about what is happening with that man with your false friends, they will be the ones who will support you, because a true friend expects the best for you and will not like you to go through this situation that can harm you, you can hear but not it will seem the best for you.

complicated to share with friends
complicated to share with friends

3. THE OBLIGATIONS WITH THEIR CHILDREN AND WIFE WILL ALWAYS BE PRIMORDIAL

You must get used to not having any priority with that person, your family will always be before you, there will be many dates when you can not be with that man because he will be busy with your family while you are alone.

children and wife stay together

4. THE COMPANY DOES NOT ACCEPT THIS TYPE OF RELATIONS

You may not have considered what your friends and family will think when they find out about your situation, we do not imply that you have to act to please other people, but will you really enjoy being in that situation?

good friends doesnt accept this kind of relations
good friends doesnt accept this kind of relations

5. EVERY NIGHT HE SLEEPS WITH HIS WIFE

When you fall in love with a person you love only for yourself, it is inconceivable to think about sharing it. The idea that this man sleeps in the same bed with his wife may be an idea that torments you day and night, it can really affect your emotional state.

sleep with his wife
sleep with his wife

6. DO YOU PLAN TO HAVE CHILDREN?

The idea of children is a dream for many women, sometimes a married man is already closed to the idea of having more children, often the lovers have to settle for what he says because having children is not an option.

plan to have children

 

7. YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE WITH THE GHOST OF INSECURITY

Even if you achieve the goal of that man being left alone with you, there will always be the insecurity that he will leave you for being with someone else.

ghost of insecurity

8. THE PROBABILITIES OF A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP ARE VERY FEW

Only 5% of relationships with a married man will end up becoming a marriage, and only 5% of relationships in these relationships survive, it is not just about how to fall in love, but how to keep the relationship alive.

success ratio of this relation ship

9. It is not so easy to tell someone that you have a relationship with a married man.

If you tell a good friend, she may understand but in the end if she is really your friend may end up telling you how much you can get hurt from a relationship to try to get into the life of a married man, if your friendship is sincere and your friend really loves you and cares about you, she will not let you hurt, in the end, you will always be the other and maintain a double life it is just for you,  you will see that time passes and he does not do anything to be definitely with you.

10. If you get to decipher how to attract a married man and marry him …

In spite of everything, a married man does not stop feeling that he is doing something bad, probably even if he broke his marriage for you, there will always be the shadow of the feelings of guilt for having abandoned his family.

In some way, you will always be “the intruder, the other”. Falling in love with a married man is a double-edged sword, you may have the man you want, but do not expect their loyalty since their whole relationship was not based on this value.

10. You are closing the roads yourself.

The longer you stay in a relationship with a married man, the less likely you are to have a chance to have a real relationship, that’s why dating a married man is a double-edged sword, in which you could be deeply hurt.

When you realize that there is really nothing and that this relationship was temporary and ephemeral, it may be too late. You will have lost time with someone who had not planned his future with you, you will end up hurt, with low self-esteem and without a ring in your hand. Lovers of married men live a hidden and lonely life.

11. Do you sometimes say? I want to stop being your lover …

When he says: “It’s so hard for me to make a decision, please give me a little more time”, it really means … “I want to have both relationships at the same time because it’s very convenient and convenient”.

A wife to have the prestige of a married man, being cared for and enjoying with their children and a lover with whom to have fun, to get out of bed, to have relationships without compromises.

Moving away from a married man will be the best option, maybe it is complicated, mainly if you have fallen in love, but it will always be the best decision for you, which may hurt a lot at the beginning but with time you will realize that it was the most healthy for you, your emotions and your self-esteem.

Every married man will tell his lover heartbreaking and unfair stories about his wife, and they will all have a pretext not to abandon her, an illness, the children, the love that he feels … whatever the reason, he is teasing you.

12. During the holidays is always far from you?

Holidays like Christmas, his birthday, his children’s and his wife’s, holidays and Valentine’s Day, a married man will always be with his family.

13. Do you leave everything to see it?

Your friends will soon hate you for canceling with them at the last minute. Because you do not want to miss the opportunity to meet with him for 15 minutes instead of going to your friends’ birthday party! Going out with a married man also takes you away from your social circle and will never get close to his.

14. Finishing with him will also hurt but in the end, it will be healthier and more just for you.

How to leave my lover a married man, how to leave the relationship if I love him
Well, taking the decision and doing it, it will not be easy but it will be the right thing for you, the temporary pain of breaking can be very difficult but leaving a married man will always be better than living everything listed above.

Do not forget that they will hardly leave their marriages , even if they say crazy to their wife, even if they say they never sleep with her, even if they say they are there for the children, even if they sleep with you once when they are single, even if they take off their ring, although they say they are in the process of divorce, no matter what they say, never a married man leaves his wife to commit to the other.

Do not forget, adventures with a married man is the worst waste of time and an insult to the self-esteem that a woman can live. Do not listen to who gives you tips to attract a married man!

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Andy Johnson

Degree in Psychology from the University of Buenos Aires. Master in Human Resources and expert in business communication and coaching. Postgraduate in Nutrition and Sanitary and Social Feeding by the UOC. Especially interested in wellness and sports.

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